Gwyn, I don't know if I've posted to you before, but follow your thread some... I know that you are a person of faith, so I'm wondering if you have found www.rejoiceministries.org It is run by a couple, Bob and Charlene Steinkamp, who have put their marriage backtogether after his actually leaving home after an affair...both of them write a lot about the prodigals returning home and the role of the spouse, and they offer scriptural support... I have found some of their materials and information helpful, there is a daily inspirational message you can sign up for that can be helpful.
Another Christian website I found helpful is (I believe, havent been there for awhile)www.restoreministries.org
have you considered speaking with your physician about antidepressants to help you get over the "hump" to be able to think more clearly about this if you feel your depression is worsening your situation?
