Help, please. I feel as though I've tried everything and so has my husband but I cannot overcome his affair. I want to try and make our marriage work, but alas, the truth is, I don't think I can. My H and I talked this morning and I told him to talk to me like his best friend, if I came to you as my best friend and asked what they would do if they loved their husband very much but was having trouble getting beyond the affair, what advise would he give? He said that he would advise his best friend to leave the marriage. It will never be good and that I would be setting myself up for years of misery. Honestly my friends out there, I don't think I'm going to be able to move beyond this. We are in MC, going to church, praying together, etc. but I still cannot put this behind me. I guess I'm one of those persons who will not be stronge enough to let it go. I just cannot stomach this. Please help me. Please give me words of wisdom on what to do. I know ultimately it has got to be my decision, but I'm getting to a point of what's the use? I cannot do this and I'm holding on to this M only because the alternative is to be lonely and that is something I'm not looking forward to, but to stay with my H pretty much disgusts me. PLEASE HELP!!!!!
