It has been awhile since I've posted so I wanted to post an update. My marriage is still hanging on by a thread. My H is very depressed and has all but given up on our marriage. He wants me to make a decision and since I cannot he is making my life miserable. He told me had no hope and no faith and that it's useless for us to continue down this stupid path. Divorce will be the outcome and there is nothing he can do or say to make me happy. So we're two people living together as sad, pathetic and lost individuals. Any advise out there? Because I'm depressed, my husband is depressed, and because he's depressed, I become more depressed. Please help. We're headed down this dark tunnel and I don't know what to do any more.