Hmmmm James those are tough questions. Here is what she wrote to me in a recent IM conversation:
quote:you stopped dressing up, going to the gym, cleaning, taking care of the animals, complimenting me, buying me flowers or cards, everything was different--you didnt have to do anything cuz i married you and you put in no time or effort into anyting except what you wanted
So I wonder are these the things she is looking for? I don't know. I sent her a little card but it got no response so I am confused.