Yup, we can't control our Hs ...only ourselves. Was at a spa yesterday (day that H left) and while I was being "scrubed" head-to-toe with lemon-scented scrub, I was thinking to myself..."mmmm if H continues to provide for the boys, and I could still enjoy all this...life won't be so bad without a man, is it?" So, I can't control what H wants to do, but I can control the way I live mine. And I am gonna continue to lead life happily with or without H....(but of course, hopefully WITH).
