Hi guys thanks for your words. BB yeah still have a rotten hacking cough that I think will be around for a few weeks and get tired very quickly but am definately better than last week. I think I have got to a point at the moment where I just dont give a rats about what is going on with H. He needs time he can have it, I can't control him, I can't make things happen so I just need to be very distant and if he wants to persue then he can but I won't be jumping at it either, time for him to chase me alot and if he doesn't well it tells me more. Sorry but just fed up with the whole sitch.....KDU
