Hey KDU - well your H seems to talk the talk pretty well, and I'll definately be keeping tabs on your thread to see if he starts walking the walk.

By him discussing with you what he meant was a positive in itself. He didnt get all defensive and answered your question without hesitation. And he did acknowledge that it must be hard on you, so at least he's showing some concern.

Of course I will tell you to 'tread lightly' here, things dont happen over night we all know this and though we practice our patience it's seems to somehow spread a little thin at times. This is when you need to be or at least project that you are at you most securest and confident of yourself. You know your own worth and dont settle for less!