O.K. everyone thankyou for your input and keep it coming. Now yesterday as you know H worked for our company, well when he came back into the office at the end of the day, I was the only one here and he was nice and kisses and cuddles etc and he did say he knows it must be hard for me to just sit back and wait and I said yes it is and I do have one question for you. He said fire away and I said you know how you said you wanted to make it friends with OW what did you mean by that. He said fair enough, what I meant was that in order to make it bearable at work thats how she would have to see it end. As you know I work with her and the other Kitchen girls and have to often tell them what to do it will be very difficult if none of them are speaking to me and hard to explain to my boss. So if I make her think that friends is better for her and me it wont end as nasty or at least thats what I am hoping. I dont expect or want contact with her once I come home and I wouldn't expect you to condone that anyway. Once it is over it will be over and I will not have contact with her outside of work. He also said he was open to the idea of getting another job but wouldn't leave his current job until he found another. So I guess I will just have to wait and see at the moment. I will just continue to GAL wont pressure him or ask anymore questions unless he brings it up and see what happens over the next week or so. So I guess in a way I will detach a little but still be very happy and upbeat when we have contact, that way I wont look like I am pursuing and if he asks me about it I will say that I can't control the sitch that we are in only he can and whilst the door is open I am not going to sit back and wait, the ball is in his court so to speak.....So there we go that's where it is at. I am feeling very positive but heed your words and will try and play it down a bit and see what happens, hopefully it will prompt him into doing something quickly. I must admit the last 2 days he has seemed like my old H in the way he speaks and looks at me and the way he touches and interacts with me so who knows. I have to understand that I can't control this and sit back and wait and have patience and he will do whatever he is going to do.....So what do you all think. Keep the thoughts and ideas coming as it really does help me not to lose my head over this whole thing. Also thankyou to the newcomers that have posted here for the first time I appreciated you input as much as my fellow friends...Thanks all....KDU
