I AM MOVING ON FROM H & OW

[Burgbud]

Hey KDU! First, it's good to be happy about the progress that's been made! Be happy he decided he's coming back. Just don't be happy that he *is* back until he walks through the door, suitcase in hand.

As for him and Ow, if he still wants to be friends with her, you'll have to decide how long you're willing to let him live with one foot in each world. I think your chances for full recovery are best if he completely cuts it off with her when he comes back. Is there any chance he can find another job away from her? If not, he'll have to make his life completely transparent to you and do it without resentment. But that's a bridge that doesn't have to be crossed just yet. Just keeping DB'ing like you have been until you find it's not working any more.

Good luck!