KDU - I am happy for you in your little positives. But I would agree with Anglewings on "being a little cautious". If you see my thread...I am still threading very lightly in my sitch. I think starting to clear wardrobe space may get yourself so INTO H moving back. What I am saying is don't do any physical changes to anticipate his moving back. Cause as we all know, they are SOOOO YOYO, and you might not know what OW may do to his head. You will be really really hurt when he decide against moving back. Let everything be as-is. If he moves back in, so what if he has no wardrobe space? You just grab a whole lot of your stuff out and dump it in the spare room to make space. I think making wardrobe space is the least of your concerns! Again, not trying to rain on your parade...but I think you and I are in the some sort of the same sitch now... with our H telling us "GIve me some time, and I will make it right". So.... Sista Goddess. We need to continue with GAL and PMA; and not sit around to wait for our H to fully-COME Back.
