Hi KDU, I just want you to keep your heart a little protected still (and I sure don't want to be negative and rain on your parade so that's not what i'm meaning) my experience with kind of this sitch about 4 months ago was H said he needed to come home cause that's where he belonged with his wife and family....even went so far as to cry to D7 and tell her Daddy would never leave again, this is where he needed to be with his family that he loved and where is he now!!! So all i am saying is please be careful as the let down (hope there isn't one)for me was as bad as the initial find out almost. Just want you to take care of yourself no matter what H says look out for YOU first and then the M.
Just my two words hope I didn't offend as that is definately not my intent. I wish you all the best as this is what I myself want but who knows for me