(((((Kim)))))) Just want to say...Hang in there, sista! At least your H is starting to realise that OW is trying to make trouble, and he is lying to her about you. Soon, he is gonna get tired of all the lying and find out that it's all not worth it. I guessed until then, he would not be able to truly commit to the M. Because I think their head needs to realise that all this is not worth it first, and then they have to work it off their hearts. I don't know if I am right, but I see in my own sitch that my H is realising that he wants to try to commit to rebuilding the M. It's starting to be clearer in his head, but the heart is still messing things up. So, he is trying to sort out the heart part. But if someone has both their heads and hearts in the other way, it is rather difficult....just like my H a month back. Lately, I see him consciously trying to do things right...just the emotional attachment with the OW is difficult to break although he consciously thinks they have nothing in common. I guessed both of us have to wait it out....but while waiting...we need to hold each other's hands and GAL...Sorry for waffling.
