I AM MOVING ON FROM H & OW

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Kim-

I am so worried that I may have pushed him to make a decision he is not ready to make

If H is not ready to make a decision when the deadline comes what will you do? Will you give him an extension of a month or so? Then when that deadline comes and he still has not made a decision, then what? You will still be in the same sitch you are in now. I don't mean to come off sounding harsh, but if H knows he can always come back to you when he's undecided and then back to OW will it ever end? I know it hurts to let someone you love go, especially to another woman. You have to decided if you want to continue in this cycle or say enough is enough, I'm done and be ready to move on with your S's life and yours. ((((Kim))))