All I can say is wow KDU. That was a bold and strong move on your part. At least you let H know that you are tired of the bullsh!t and that you won't tolerate it no more. I think you layed out everything perfectly for H to think about.
I know the next few weeks are going to be agonizing . If you feel the need to call H, call somebody else or come to the board to "chat." {{{{{KDU}}}}} I'm pulling for you!!!
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years