Thanks Kismet and you keep doing what you are as you are seeing some positive results.....Nobody better do what I have done as this could backfire on me badly and I will only have myself to blame but in my heart it had to be done as it is affecting my life badly and I have to move on one way or the other but please nobody follow suit as it could be the worst thing to do. I will be wrapt if it works but I don't even want to think about how far I will fall if this doesn't work as then I will have to face a life on my own with the kids and that frightens me more than anything so I dread where I will end up if he doesn't come home but time is what I have now so we shall see....KDU
