((((Kim)))) Just want you to know that I'll be here for you... I guessed it's just WAITING for his decision now...No, I don't think that you would be neglecting your children. I read it somewhere that marital health deteriorates with the birth of each child. Also, with today's emphasis on children, we tend to neglect our relationships with our spouse. I am also guilty of that. It's always..see what the kids want or need or etc. If your H take up on your offer, and your M is on the mend,...a few months at grandma's would be great fun for the kids. My kids LOVES to stay with their grandparents! I hope it works out well for you. Good Luck!
