Kim - You wouldn't really know what's going on in his mind. Well, he could be really confused about you and OW - not knowing exactly who to choose or wanting BOTH in his life... Or, he is solely using you for s@x. I guessed the key here is if you are having fun utilizing your s@x slave and not expecting the moon and stars, then I supposed let it be. The KEY thing is that you don't feel used. Soon, he will realise that you are the one, and OW is just not sooo important after all. Only time will tell if you have the patience....