Kismet - I am in Melbourne.....Yeah I think I will just keep playing it day by day and keep doing my own thing and follow H's lead a bit but the next time I will knock him back just for the hell of it and because I can. By taking H's lead it will seem like a 180 as H normally followed y lead in most things (Mind you he was all on his own with the OW thing)Anyhow day by day for me at the moment...KDU