KDU Glad someone is getting some action. From someone with DB L plates on, I think that if ML feels like the right thing, and you can do it without it doing your head in, go for it. A lot of men really need this to show they are loved, and he will realise what he is missing. I would not think of it as him having his cake and eating it to, as long as you are not too available IFKWIM. I think it is helping with your new relationship. Hey, now you are the OW