Kismet - Not up to date with my cartoons so cannot comment on the Kim Possible comment although I like the name. Shame I didn't hear that one before i became KDU. Where about in Aus are you???? Now BB and NYS glad you two have caught up on my thread I really think the pair of you could have some wonderful conversations as you both seem very well read and like minded.......Now give me some of your infinate wisdom. As you will have seen my H since the weekend has been making contact every day for petty reasons and said he doesnt want it to be that we are not friend, dont talk and dont spend time together. (This was OW's idea not his apparently) Anyhow I have committed the big sin he and I ML today.....I know I know anyhow looks like I have backslid.....As most would know OW seems to find out about these adventures but I am not answering her calls now so she will not be told by me. I am still not going to initiate contact with H and will continue to play it cool but he has said he doesn't want to hurt OW but still doesn't know what he wants and would prefer to just see what happens in the future with us and play each day as it comes. Now is this him having his cake and eating it too????I said i know he must be finding things difficult and that I do not want to cause any more problems for him so I am happy to take it day by day like I have been...... I just don't know if I am setting myself up for a fall. Yes I still love him, Could I forgive him???Time will tell. Would I let him come home if he asked???No not yet I would say that as much as I would love him to come home I believe we have to explore our R and understanding of each other first and then work on moving in(He hasn't asked this). NYS and BB I am asking as men what do you make of this behaviour is he leading me up the garden path or is he just confused?????Come on guys I need some opinions...KDU
today.....I know I know anyhow looks like I have backslid.....As most would know OW seems to find out about these adventures but I am not answering her calls now so she will not be told by me. I am still not going to initiate contact with H and will continue to play it cool but he has said he doesn't want to hurt OW but still doesn't know what he wants and would prefer to just see what happens in the future with us and play each day as it comes. Now is this him having his cake and eating it too????I said i know he must be finding things difficult and that I do not want to cause any more problems for him so I am happy to take it day by day like I have been......
