good for you on going dark! Remember the less he knows about you the more it will drive him crazy - HOWEVER - the less you know about him the more better you will start to feel!!
H & OW started seeing each other steadily a month or so ago, H was still ML with me OW found out then up & down but last Saturday H & OW are giving it another go. OW now says H cannot come to my house or spend any time with me. Can pick up son but not enter house.
oh if I could tell you how many times STBX told me that one! I swear KDU your H is following the exact same pattern mine did, however it took me alot longer to be able to go dark. I remember the first time I tried, I told him I just didnt want to talk to him or see him for a while, and that I didnt want him calling me unless it was a life or death sitch, it was too much for me and S because STBX had become a ghost to us and the more we saw him the more it haunted us. He was asking to come home in less then 24hrs.............and like a dumba$$ I said o.k.
But as you can plainly see that noose around his neck that she's now 'dragging' him around by, is going to only get tighter and tighter.......hee-hee, he'll start to choke soon, I promise you! Hey at least she didnt make him call her and then put the phone in his pocket so she could hear what was going on!!
H has agreed......He says he doesn't want it this way but must do what she says in order to gain her trust (LOL)
dont you just love that............of course they dont want it this way.......no no no, he wanted to keep f-ing the both of you!!!!! almost makes you want to ask 'so is that your definition of an apology for being such a prick?'
Hang tought chick - your doing good, you already are reading between the lines as it is so keep it up!
