HI KDU, just jumping around all the posts as of course not sleepy again, shouldn't i be with 3 small ones..see i know i'm crazy. anyway, just jumping and then had a funny thought and knew youd be up to share it with...on the side bar is the book from Michelle "the sex starved marriage" i'm thinking as i see it tonight yeah i guess you could add that book to my new marriage library.... thought it might give you a laugh for a moment