Angel I will go to your thread to speak about you and your H...see you over there..... OCKim - thanks for your spin on things....I am very disappointed in H at the moment due to the fact that he has allowed OW to dictate what he can and can't do. It will be interesting to see if he even suggests coming in for a coffee as it is something he usually did but seeing as how OW has said he is no to enter my house I don't know what he will do. I just wanted to be prepared. I think I will look like I am going out on a Friday night and on a Saturday will just follow his lead. If he does come in I will let him but I will speak about nothing in particular and I won't put him down. If he mentions the access thing with S, I will say I know you are in a hard place but you need to do what you feel is best and leave it at that and change the subject....Anyway this week he is picking S up from school Thursday and dropping him to school Friday as he is on a late shift Friday night and cannot have S. So I guess I don't have to worry about it until next week and as we all know alot can happen in a week. Thanks OC
