Wow I am so proud of myself I made it work. Whooo Hoooo
Quick update for newcomers:
Me: 38
H: 40
S: 9
M 7
2gether for 12 yrs.
H had an A with OW from his work behind my back. They were shagging only for 3yrs until Feb this yr and he left and moved into a caravan. H & OW started seeing each other steadily a month or so ago, H was still ML with me OW found out then up & down but last Saturday H & OW are giving it another go. OW now says H cannot come to my house or spend any time with me. Can pick up son but not enter house. H has agreed......He says he doesn't want it this way but must do what she says in order to gain her trust (LOL) I have decided to go dark....

Yoyo thanks for your advice I will try that this week then and see what happens. Anyone else got ideas on what I do if H wants to have coffee on Friday when picking up son????


"FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT!!"(quote:Anna)