Thank You! That's what I was trying to explain to rearely on his last thread but I think my fingers get all twisted sometimes...
This thread has taken a really important turn. So many people try techniques that are comfortable for them (going dark when they usually withdraw or become extra supportive when they usually hover) - But they're likely to have more success if they dip into what is uncomfortable for them. And if they expect the object of their DBing to react in strange ways. Usually with more of their same, or a negative reaction at first and probably for a while; depending on the situation.
I especially appreciate Michele jumping in there and clarifying that. Thanks again JJ for another Gem!
