Sweetie, you could never annoy me. I do understand sometimes and at others I don't. I'm feisty so not very much willing to put up with any BS from anyone. Also, the fact that I'm so much happier since split with XH and enjoy being treated well by the men I now date. The bottom line is you have to follow your heart. If being married to Andy will make him treat you better then I'm all for it. Just don't settle for less.