Hi Jo:

I feel for you. It seems like your XH is in some strange frame of mind. It is very perplexing the way in which he seems to be trying to make a mild reconnection but it has all this other garbage mixed into it. Almost seems like he has lost control of his life and is just floating around behaving irrationally. Good for you that you are drawing boundaries and demanding to be respected. You deserve that, at least. Stay wonderful.

UD


The 3 laws of DBing: 1. PMA is critical to DBing. 2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical. 3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.