Well my opinion is that he crosses boundaries quite a lot. Just in the last few weeks he has said 'I will always love you, you know that', he's sent me a text kiss, he's trying to initiate physical contact and he has talked about sex and made sexual jokes every time we have met easily for the last month.
Given all these facts, I do wish to be treated like a wife, and if he doesn't want to treat me like a wife, then he shouldn't be sex talking etc, which is why I got so angry. Then to suggest his OW come round here, well, that just blew the lid on my temper.
I would never meet with her even if me and him are over. It's just not something that is acceptable to me. In fact, I wouldn't have even met EX-OW but at the time I was court ordered to because Andy refused to meet me to do the child hand overs. That's the only reason I ever met EX-OW and I'm not ever going to again.
I just think it's the most unreasonable thing you can expect your ex to do.
Plus you're right, I wasn't feeling well, I'd missed DD's birthday etc.
I definitely want him to respect me more otherwise we will just keep falling out.
