Jo,

Sorry to hear about you sit., I hope you feel better.


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To make matters worse, when he went home last night, he and BIL got drunk and stoned on dope and he was hungover. Honestly, he upsets me to the point of tears, treats me like his little call girl, then f**ks off home to get high on drugs.



Jo, when my W was using drugs there was no way to make sense out of what she was doing. I feel for you. Drugs whether they are narcotics, alcohol or just "weed" affect the minds of the users. I agree that some are more dangerous than others but they are all mind altering.

I am guessing that he is smoking marijuana, some people think thats no big deal. They think weed is somehow ok to use, but every drug affects proper thinking. Has he always used or is this a new phase?

During withdrawls my W was mean to me and the kids, during the use or being high she was happy, not scared of anything and now I realize also horny from the drugs (not because she wanted me).

jdd


emotional rollercoaster