Hey c'mon Wez, you make it sound like I am back together with this guy, so he's more friendly than usual and we had a laugh, but I don't read anymore into it than that at the moment.
No, he's not having a birthday party for EX-OW. It's our DD2's birthday on 6th August but it also happens to be EX-OW's 47th birthday too and since she still lives in the house, she will be at DD2's birthday - hence the reason I will not go.
I mean, she has a live in bf there now, but I still don't want to go. I don't like her very much.
She was a fling he had that lasted less than 6 months, she was not a wife. I'm the only wife he ever had, my X is only 30.
As for OW2 - I cannot work it out. i know she exists and he has visited her ocassionally, but they never do stuff together, he takes the kids places on their own still. Basically, what I'm saying is, I know she exists and they're friends but I'm not convinced they have an R beyond friendship - if they have, then he's obviously treating her like a casual shag.
He does like to keep me in orbit without committing, but this time (if there is a this time) I am not doing anything remotely sexual unless he marries me. I shall laugh off the innuendo like I have been doing.
As for the rest, I don't see any harm in chatting to the man. It's better than court.
