I am fighting tears now, ugh, I hate contact with X.
He wanted to know if he could take DD4 camping next Tuesday for a few days. I said yes because it doesn't clash with any of my day trips.
Then he asked if I wanted to come to DD2's birthday (she will be 8) as he is having a barbeque with a load of home ed people and other kids.
I asked if OW2 will be there (I have deduced she is called 'Maddie' - rather appropriate, she'd have to be MAD to get involved with him), he said he wasn't sure, but maybe.
I said no. Ugh. I can't imagine anything worse than going to a party with whore 1 and whore 2, and all these home ed people I've never met who evidently know I'm non-custodial, that I know he gossips with about me because he said so.
I said he wouldn't get me there if he paid me. I asked him why we can't just do a separate party for her, i.e, he has one with his whores etc and then we do another one just for our family.
He said he didn't have any other time free. Yeah right.
I told him that there seems little point in me going anyway when I am not allowed to be involved in any other part of her life.
He said he was inviting me so I don't accuse him of not inviting me like I did with DD1.
I told him hell would have to freeze over before I went anywhere near his house.
He said fine, I was just asking, see you on Tuesday.