Oh yeah, we both used to feed each other. He fed me strawberries quite often, I fed him grapes, gave him my last Rolo in the packet etc. People do, don't they?

Used to wash his hair also and he'd bring me wine in the bath. Ah, those were the days What I would give to have that level of closeness and intimacy again.

I can't believe your W never fed you chocolate, you poor man!

We even went in little rowing boats before the kids were born and he read me poetry

Oh well, perhaps my whole R was just cliched

Jo.