Ahh, the classy pen name! Just like Samuel Clemen's Mark Twain.
Again, you amaze me with your inner strength that allows you to repeatedly offer peaceful gestures to Andy, the latest being the name changes. You pointed this out in your first posts - that kindness and friendly overtures pull him to appropriate, kind behavior on his part. I imagine that his lending of his laptop is one such reciprocal move.
I'm glad that you were able to visit with the girls.