Lil' Glad you are back home. I look foward to your book reviews and wisdom.
RE Lil
Quote: I was out of town all last week. Talked to my bf on the phone every night-- he told me he loved me and missed me. Got home Friday afternoon. That night I went to bed, as usual, around 11 pm. He sat up watching tv and fell asleep on the sofa. I got up at 1:15 am and saw him there, but didn't wake him up. He came to bed about half an hour later. Missed me, huh? (And yes, we've talked about this a zillion times. Usually when I head for bed at 11, he'll say, I'll be right there, and get there around 1:30. If I ask him to come with me, he'll say, he just wants to finish this movie, this download, etc.)
It sounds like we live ia a parallel universe. Almost the same thing happens here but for different reasons. Bb goes to bed around 10PM and me much later.
I assume your BF wants to avoid physical contact and not deal with his ED. I do the late bedtime because I want physical contact and IC/ML but get put off when I try. Staying up late is one way to not have to face those bad feelings when you imagine what the outcome will be based on past history.
I try to change things but seem to be making little progress. Any comments appreciated. All questions answered to the best of my ability.
