Thanks WC Beth...
I really appreiate your input. A LOT!

I did talk to H since my post and I was really nice and friendly and just said that I want him to be honest. I asked if he is still communicating with OW. He said that he has spoken to her but nothing really big or important. I said that I was happy that he was honest with me. He said that I have nothing to worry about. I belive that I do have something to worry about....or he would have talked to her. I just dont know what to say or do now...any suggestions