Sorry to hear about your sitch. I have also had to deal with my H's OW contact. He has ended to A three times and then each time started it back up again. This time he was telling me how much better he was doing and how we were going in the right direction.I knew he had some contact with OW but ends up he was seeing her several times a week for sex! I asked him to move out. It was taking too great of a toll on me. In DR, Michelle talks about the LRT and After the LRT. She says you'll reach a point where you've had enough. That was me. It is so difficult right now and has been extremely hard on the kids. But we had been stuck in a vicious cycle and I had to break it. I don't know what to tell you except you need to do what is best for you and your marriage. I think sometimes we are trying so hard to save our marriage that we lose sight of ourselves. I did. I am not giving up but am just remembering that I can control me but not him. Good luck and keep us posted!
WC Beth
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
