Okay....Last night I was able to joke with H about the text messages...I did it in such a great way. At that moment his phone beeped and gee it was her text messaging him....I started laughing (I think that I am crazy...lol) and he said it was from her and it said that she misses him and wants to talk to him and that she loves him. To me it sounds like maybe there is a little hope that he hasnt spoken to her...who know...I just got a kick out of the entire thing.

I have decided that I can let these text messages drive me crazy or just laugh about them and smile....it is only a message not a physical thing. If I found out there was a physical thing I wouldnt be laughing. Taking it one day at a time.

By the way thank NY for your smart ass comment yesterday...it made me think. I needed it!