BQT1 - I agree with you H may not be speaking to her she could just be persuing him but you wont truly know. The OW does have a knack for getting under their skin probably b/c they are newer and they don't know them as well as us. Maybe they just expect we will be there waiting for them anyway. How cute about Hannah that is good keep doing things for you and your daughter. How is sitch with you Mum that was a bit weird.....KDU