It's unfortunate to hear that you can't seem to shake off OW...she really does come off across as insecure to have to message you. I don't know what advice I could give ( except to change your # but you've tried that already ) since my H's OW has not done anything like this to me ( don't think she has my number but don't think she would message me b/c she's actually afraid of me...from what H says and her ex-friends ). But why would she text me...she has H. I only think if she felt him slipping thru her fingers would she get desperate enough to start stirring up trouble.
Maybe that's what it is for your H's OW...could she be feeling your H slip away? Or is she just that malicious?
Anyways, if she does it again...how about showing the message to H? How do u think he would react? Could it help your sitch more, while hurt their R?
