Quote: Yesterday she texted me letting me know that she had the day off and she will be with him.
Michelle,
Here's a thought...Call your cell provider and get a new number. I guarantee that she won't call and text you anymore. Oh yeah, and don't give H your cell # either.
I agree with DMF...change your cell number. I'm sure OW gets a kick out of letting you know what she will be doing with your H. If she doesn't have your NEW cell number she can no longer make contact with you and it will no longer be fun for her to make these outrageous text messages and phone calls.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
It's unfortunate to hear that you can't seem to shake off OW...she really does come off across as insecure to have to message you. I don't know what advice I could give ( except to change your # but you've tried that already ) since my H's OW has not done anything like this to me ( don't think she has my number but don't think she would message me b/c she's actually afraid of me...from what H says and her ex-friends ). But why would she text me...she has H. I only think if she felt him slipping thru her fingers would she get desperate enough to start stirring up trouble.
Maybe that's what it is for your H's OW...could she be feeling your H slip away? Or is she just that malicious?
Anyways, if she does it again...how about showing the message to H? How do u think he would react? Could it help your sitch more, while hurt their R?
I imagine that if you call the service provider, they could track down the calls and TM's from her. This is probably something that could potentially cost her her job. I'm sure you have rights with regard to confidentiality. Anyway, just a thought. And remember, don't give H your new # either because I imagine she has access to his phone...
Just tired of his bullsh** Michelle. Sorry if I'm harsh.
Nothing real new to address except that I decided not to tell him about the text messages and call. I figure that he would have a choice to either believe me or not....then I thought about this...maybe he isnt talking to OW and she knows that if I address the situation with H then he might call her....or maybe they are talking and it will just cause a big argument. Still so confused but staying happy.
But...let me tell you a cute story. I took Hannah bike riding....while I should say I rode and she enjoyed herself so much...I got her one of those seats that hook onto the bike....she kept saying yeah! She wore a toddler bike helmet....so darn cute. We went through the park where they have a bad that plays on Thursday's...I had such a great time and got in a little extra exercise.
Quote: I got her one of those seats that hook onto the bike....she kept saying yeah! She wore a toddler bike helmet....so darn cute.
I have a two year old and a four year old and we have the same contraptions that hook onto the backs of our bikes. I know, those helmets, they look so adorable in those things!! Our kids actually fall asleep in there sometimes, isn't that amazing??
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
BQT1 - I agree with you H may not be speaking to her she could just be persuing him but you wont truly know. The OW does have a knack for getting under their skin probably b/c they are newer and they don't know them as well as us. Maybe they just expect we will be there waiting for them anyway. How cute about Hannah that is good keep doing things for you and your daughter. How is sitch with you Mum that was a bit weird.....KDU
Just to update you all a little. Things have been good between me and H. We have been getting along really well. I am just hoping that he isn't using me because we have Devin for a month. I guess the main reason that I am posting is because I am nervous about the entire stitch. I want to trust but its hard and Melinda text messaged him on Sunday...and who know how many other times. I just hate Wednesday's....Melinda told me along time ago that she has this day off. Albert has to work in Victorville, Ca today and had to leave at 3am....well at 307am I received two calls from a Victorville, Ca # that didnt say anything. Maybe I am jumping to conclusions but I just think that it is strange....because of the one day Albert supposedly pulled off the freeway to rest and Melinda had a room a couple buildings over. I just hate feeling like this. I did call Albert today and of course no answer. It just makes me wonder. I just want to move completely forward and to do this I wish that I knew for sure that he wasn't talking to her anymore but I know he might still be. I really dont know what to do but I guess that I can only do is put a smile on my face and fake it(right Anna)
Well, I have still been riding my bike with Hannah in the back and she loves it. I am still doing things for myself....and actually I have been really positive and looking forward...its just the Wednesday blues...lol! (Although I am not really blue)
