BQT Hey kdk could be right but if you are not getting much positive feedback from H then how about ignoring him. Not completely but just go about your business at home as though he is not there. Act happy and all and put into action all your DB skills and then when he says something like you dont seem to interested in me say Oh I'm sorry it's just that, I got the distinct impression from you that you had some issues to sort out so I was trying to make sure I gave you no pressure, I thought that might help you out but any time you are ready to make an effort with the marriage I am more than willing to sit down and hear what you suggest......All sweet like.....Hehehehe is that too sarcastic??????KDU Keep your chin up....
