Thank you all so much....I can never explain how much all of this information means to me....
When I say that H has been more loving.....it might sound funny but I just mean that he was acting like things had a chance...there has been no real big effort. He did turn off his phone this weekend.
I did talk to H tonight and asked him what are his goals with us and he said..."all I can say is we can try" It pissed me off....if you only knew half of what has been going on in my life you would see how I could have flown off the handle but of course I stayed sweet. He said that he would like to be happily married. I just hate thinking that if we dont communicate and then either one of us is unhappy...I will be the one hurt because it will just be over and then he can say oh well we tried. Its hard to think that I am suppose to fix everything in a month when it took 2 years to get to this point. Two years with this OW and stupid me really believed that they were friends.
KDU.. with your advise I could have sworn that you were my SIL. She has said the same things in the past...yes my H own sister tells me that I am to good to deseve this...I just dont want to feel like a failure. What to do...what to do!
DMF.. You know that I think tha tyou are ABSOLUTELY the greatest...and I appreciate all that you say...if its tough love or not.
I hope that everyone has a great night...you all deserve it...I will be checking in all you all even if I dont have any advise to give. You are all in my thoughts
