I must admit I would like to know what his attempts at a more loving side have been. What I wonder about is the fact that he has moved back in with you because he had no where else to go is that also why he is giving the M another chance as he doesn't feel it is right to move back in with you unless it is to do with M. I don't mean to rain on your parade but I just wonder about the motives more so b/c of his actions and the I hate you comment, that really concerns me. Anyhow I will reserve my judgement until I hear how he is acting more loving.....KDU