Should I talk to H about OW and let him know that I am not approving him talking to her or am I suppose to be quiet and let it eat me up inside
that's a tuffie - do you never if he's spoke with her before and just never admited it? did he ever say WHY he spoke with her, or who called who????????? or was it 'honey pass the salt, and oh yea, by the way........'
let me ask you this since you know your H better then anyone............IF you did say something to your H, would it make a differance? or do you think he's the type that would still contact her? if the answer is yes, then to repeat yourself about the reason of NC is only wasting your time.
Again I say that because so many of our sitches are the same, as well as the patterns of the WS.........and I'm basing it on my own experiences as well.
