Quote: Should I talk to H about OW and let him know that I am not approving him talking to her or am I suppose to be quiet and let it eat me up inside.
Michelle,
What I'm about to say may be incredibly unpopular in this environment but here goes...
What if you just DON'T talk to him. Say something like, "As long as you continue to interact with Melinda, I will have nothing to say to you. I need to move forward personally and professionally and start working from the mindset that we may never be a "we" again. Obviously. when it comes to Hannah, we will have conversations but other than that, I can't continue this rollercoaster ride. I don't wish bad things on you, I just cannot, for my well being, do this anymore."
Take it for what it's worth, but on a personal (and hopefully not selfish) note, I'm having trouble reading about the way he treats you day in and day out, and (I think everyone will agree on this part) you damn well don't deserve it.
OK, off the soap box for now...try and have a great day at work Michelle,
