BQT1, I cannot imagine how hard this must be for you. I would not talk to the OW at all. When she calls I would say something like "I am sorry I have nothing to say to you. You are nothing to me" and hang up. This woman is just trashy. She obviously has really low self esteem if she has to do that sort of thing to make herself feel good. Do you have caller id on your phone? I do think that WAH feel guilt by their actions and this may be why they lie. As they still have feelings for us, they don't want to hurt us, and in their twisted little minds this is how they justify it. (This is just an observation/gut instinct I have felt from seeing my WAH turn from someone who was always honest to someone who cannot lie straight in bed at night). I know the aliens have abducted him, and in time he will return, but right now he lies and I try not to get caught up in it all. The main thing is to look after yourself and your precious little girl. Stay strong
