KDK makes a good suggestion the only other thing you can do is if H says he wants to talk say O.K. I will listen to you if you have something to say. Then listen and see what he says if it is more of the same as yesterday then once he has finished speaking I would just say I don't want any arguments and as far as I am concerned yesterday doesn't matter to me so I don't see that it is worth discussing. If it is that he is sorry then say you are sorry too but you need your space for the moment and should things change with him and he needs to talk then he can contact you etc etc. Just let him take the lead but do not allow yourself to get into any arguments after what happened the other day, if it looks like an argument, then walk away or validate him, be nice an try and get him to leave but do not argue. Goodluck BQT1 you can handle this and you will, we are all here for you as we know it isn't easy....Keep strong...KDU
