A slump to my spirit happened last night and I need some true hard and tough advise from all of my friends here....
H was coming to see Hannah...he called and said that he was really tired and that there was a big accident on the freeway so she was going to pull off and go to sleep for a few hours. Well, low and behold my phone rings....its a private # (I was expecting a call from my grandpa)I answered the call it was Melinda(OW) she wanted to let me know that she will be spending time with H. She told me that she is getting a room at the Best Western Select and spending time f*cking my husband. She told me to call the hotel and see. Well, I called the hotel and she was there...this was about 200 yards from where H was so tired that he was going to sleep in his work truck.
When H got to the house I was still really nice and he told me that it was really hard to sleep in his work truck and on and on he went....so I told him that he should have enjoyed the bed at the Best Western Select where he was with Melinda...f*ucking her. I told him that I am sick of all of this [censored] and Hannah does not deserve to go through this either. I am tired of OW calling me...I am sick of all of his lies (he did tell me that he wasnt with her...he said that I probably got a list of all of the motels in the city and tried to see if one of them had a room...I told him that he can check my phone bill....I dont like liars and I am not going to be one) I told him that he needs to get any of his belongings that are still at the house and get them out of there....he was being very calm because he knows that I am correct about Melinda and him. He left moments after we talked and things were fine....I didnt even cry when he left....I just couldnt believe that he wanted to tell me that he wasnt with her at this hotel and that for some reason she got a room in a city that is away from all of our houses....and it was a coincedence that they were both in the same city and on the same street. I must have stupid written on my forehead. I knew that he was going to turn this around on me being crazy....of couse Melinda wouldnt have called me...it was me that called around to all of the hotels to find them.....I have a daughter to spend time with....I dont have the time for that!
I dont know what to do today when I see him....he is getting his things...he wants to talk...what do I do and say. I want to be tough, friendly but not a doormat....Yikes! Any thoughts
