O.K. BQT1 well done on the OW ignore her and no more contact it is truly better and I know. You will still wonder but it is better not to know let OW wonder all she likes......As for WAH...did you take those photo's???? Regardless of how nice he is now I hope you did even if they get thrown out later it is a safety net for you my sweet........Now good on you for saying your piece about the weekend that was good words....I would work out first how you feel about H b4 making my next move...H in one breath said he wanted to give M a go and then said that after the weekend it would never work (which is his fault on the weekend). So again H doesn't know what he wants at the moment and I don't feel you really know yet either so for the moment how about being nice and friendly in true DB style but distant as well. 1: That helps DB process but 2: It helps protect you abit until you know what you want. I would take my time on this one as you have had a very big shock at the moment from the weekend and I would take the time to process your feelings.....Hope this helps a bit....KDU
