Just wanted to update everyone on my situation. I am trying to be very strong and I am doing pretty good at it. I have seen H and we have spoken...he did apologize for everything but at the same time he said that I pushed his buttons. I went through the events on how I remembered them...and he got quiet....I told him that if I was an abusive and button pushing peerson I would have been that way when I found out about the A and not this late into the game. I figure that it helps him feel better to blame me for everything. Then he told me that he wanted to work on our marriage but after our altercation last Thursday he doesnt think that it can ever work.....Gee thats a great thought. I wish that it would have never happened....he said that he is just not happy now....I havent talked to him about OW and have I now blocked OW from trying to contact me via IM, email, and so on. I dont want to deal with this anymore....at least the OW...I have learned that she helps to make me more miserable. I dont know what to do about H but I am playing by ear....any suggestions
